Top 4 Things Not to Do With Women in Bed

1. Asking Her What Turns Her On

Talk to women any day and you will find their biggest complaint is communication, men just don't really know how. Asking her seems logical right? Wrong. We appreciate the effort, really we do, but for most of us, opening up like that is not an easy task. We want a man who leads, who pays attention and knows what to do. We do understand you can't read minds, but we know somewhere inside that if you pay really close attention to the signals of our body, you will learn what turns us on without asking.

If you just ask her "What turns you on?" you might get a good answer. She might even like it when you ask her. But there is a strong chance that, on some unconscious level, she will feel a weakness in you and be disappointed.

She will be less turned on by the sexual experience if she feels weakness. The key is to get her to open up and get her to show you without you asking.

2. Using Techniques to Please Her

Techniques are great, but again, a woman's orgasm really is directly connected with her brain. The problem with these techniques is that all women are different. What works on one, will not work on another. A woman can tell when you are just focused on a mastering a technique. This means one thing to her, you aren't focused on her but on what you are doing at the time. She then feels pressure to reward you for your efforts. We often fake orgasms at times like this just to get you to stop. It makes us very uncomfortable to have a man doing some robotic thing hoping to bring us to orgasm.

3. Not Understanding the Sexual Language of Women

Sexual communication is foreign to most men. Women give off all kinds of signals, but you aren't understanding her most of the time. Have you ever been going down on a woman and for some reason you feel she may be up there sleeping? Have you ever had a woman getting really excited and she pushed you away or stopped you? This is happening because again, you aren't paying attention and she is frustrated. If you can learn how to listen to a woman's body and really pay attention, she is capable of having an incredible sexual experience. Tons of signals are being sent out when a woman is close to orgasm. Men misinterpret them for many reason, one of which is he may be looking for the standard orgasm response. Screaming, moaning,what ever he has encountered before. Not all women are alike and I can't stress this enough. Some orgasm quietly and you have to pay attention to her breathing. Others thrash around. Some are still. It is critical to be able to read her sexual language and all women speak it differently.

4. Not Doing Anything To Fix It

The 4th and biggest mistake of all. If you don't do anything to fix it. Women will stay and remain faithful to you if you are an incredible lover, don't underestimate the power of it. If you aren't doing it, chances are somewhere out there is a man who will take the time and effort to take her to higher sexual levels.

Are you the best lover she ever had? Are you sure? You can be.

Giving her Earth Shaking Orgasms

Did you know that 50% of women fake orgasms most of the time? Did you know that most men are clueless as to give a woman earth shattering orgasms in the bedroom? A lot of men think because the woman is wet, she is ready for the plunge. Its a proven fact that it takes a lot more for a woman to reach an orgasm than a man.

A woman has to feel comfortable, she has to know you want to please her and that you are willing to do what it takes. For instance, if the woman knows you are only going to use your tongue on her for 5 minutes and then stop, chances are, she has already accepted the fact she better be ready to fake it. If you take the plunge as soon as she is wet, she is not likely to reach orgasm.

Slow down, take your time and explore and tease. Touch her all over, kiss her all over. Have her throbbing and aching for direct contact. Run your hands and tongue gently all over her and she will be begging for your touch. The longer you tease her, the more intense and rapid her orgasm will come when you do make contact.

Once you get her begging for you for her release, have your techniques ready. You need to know where and how to touch her and how to locate her g-spot. Women are capable of having 3 types of orgasms and having multiple orgasms. Learn how to drive your woman wild and have her weak in the knees. Be the best lover she has ever had and give her earth shaking orgasms.

Is She Faking It?

A lot of women won't tell you what they really want in bed. They are emotional creatures and love the foreplay and the cuddle time. The truth is they long for a man that can rock their world and make them surrender and scream in pleasure. They fake it because they don't want to hurt your feelings.

75% of women admit to faking. Women know that a man puts a lot of stock into his sexual performance and so they fake it to stroke your ego. Admit it, when you think you have made her weak in the knees, you feel great! You feel like Don Juan.

Its also a fact that most women take longer to reach orgasm than men. If a man knows what do do, and how to do it, it will not take a woman so long to peak to sexual pleasure. She is capable of having many orgasms if you are able to give them to her. Women are not limited to the number of orgasms she can achieve. How would you like to be told, please please stop, I can't take anymore. You can make a woman scream in bed if you know what works.

When a woman loses control, her skin gets hot, and red, she has contractions, her breathing is out of control and her body writhes. She stumbles when she gets out of bed because she is weak in the knees and disoriented. If your woman is not doing this, chances are, she is faking it. Are you this kind of lover to her? Do you make her scream with ecstasy between the sheets?



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