Two Huge Mistakes Men Make in Bed

There are two mistakes that men make in bed that I would imagine there isn't a woman around that can't relate to.  If when talking to their girlfriends and the subject comes up, they will all sigh in unison, trust me.  We have all had these two mistakes done to us more than once.

The First Biggest Mistake That Men Make in Bed

You may be doing something really well.  You could be going down on her or stroking her or you may be pounding her like there is no tomorrow and it's feeling really good.  The mistake here is that you stop doing what is feeling really really good to her.  Why you stop, we don't know, but in that moment, we want to just shoot you, trust me.  We get frustrated and it feels just awful.  There is nothing worse than being on the brink or orgasm and you stop and go to something different.  The entire momentum is interrupted.  Unlike men, who once orgasm starts, it won't stop, we are left hanging.  You are going to explode even if your mama walks in.  Not us women, doesn't work that way.  Stimulation stops, so does the orgasm.  Just ughhh.

It would really serve you guys well to pay attention here to her breathing and heart rate and her complexion.  They are very telling as to where she is at.  Right before orgasm, a woman can feel her heart just beating very rapidly.  Hell I can hear it in my ears and it baffles me that you as a man can't pick up on this.  If you are thinking that "She is enjoying this so much, let me see what else I can do she might enjoy more", drop that mentality.  If it's working, let her cum, then go onto something else and give her another orgasm.



The Second Biggest Mistake Men Make in Bed

A mistake that men make in bed often is that they get stuck in a spot doing it all wrong.  Maybe they are rubbing her clit or going down on her as mentioned above, but they are in the wrong place or putting on too much pressure or not enough.  Maybe they are rubbing or licking the lower half of her clit and she likes to have the upper part stimulated.  Men do this for one of two reasons. 

1.  They want her to hurry up and cum because they are too excited and ready to cum themselves. 

2.  They don't care or know any better.  They really don't know what their woman prefers.  All women are not alike and don't respond to the same thing.  When a man goes straight for the spot and starts rubbing away before it's even wet, he has a long road ahead of him to making her cum more times than not.  It downright can hurt and pain does not result in orgasm. 

If one of those two reasons don't resonate with you, you can bet that is how she feels.  Women often worry that it takes them too long to cum and that you are getting tired or not enjoying it.  Put that pressure on a woman and find it's going to take her that much longer to reach orgasm, if she even can.  Many women can't or don't orgasm because they don't feel their men really are that interested in her orgasm.  This is when they may start to fake it, because it's turning into work.  This is when they start getting a lot of head aches or aren't in the mood. It's a vicious cycle. 

Break this cycle please before she starts to fantasize about another man.  Don't make her have to finish herself off in those few minutes it takes you to go to the bathroom and piss after sex. 

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What Women Want in Bed

This is the question men ask all the time. There are over 3600 searches daily just in the local area here alone. Are you guys getting the answers? I think most men think they already know what women want in bed, but the sad truth is most of them really don't.

How do I know this? Because I coach hundreds of women about love and relationship. 90% or more are with a man that they so wish knew more. They don't tell them because to be honest, one of the things women want most in bed is a man in charge, a man that just knows and is open to exploring and encouraging her to be the tiger inside.

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Thing is so many men say that communication is the key. It's not. Sure it helps but it is not the key. The key is understanding a woman's sexuality. Understanding that sex is in her mind and how exactly this relates to what women want in the bedroom.

I challenge you to answer the following questions honestly.

Is your sexlife like a broken record, same thing everytime. Sure she has an orgasm but is it the almost the same everytime

Do you usually initiate sex and she rarely if ever does.

Do you ever turn her down when she comes to you for sex?

Do you think your partner has no sexual fantasies?

Do you not touch her hair, her face and look into her eyes while making love?

Do you neglect her other basic body parts, neck, arms, thighs, even feet?

Does sex always start in the bedroom and never outside of it?

Do you think she just wants to have an orgasm and teasing would not be all that welcomed?

Does she ever have to lay there for a while to catch her breath afterwards?

Do you stop at her one orgasm? Do you think that her orgasm means it's over? Is her one orgasm you single goal?

Do you know if your woman has a submissive or dominant nature in the bedroom.

If you answered yes to 3 or more of these questions, you do not know what women want in bed, sorry but you just don't.

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A woman is capable of extreme pleasure, multiple orgasms and wild passion. Talking to here about it is not going to wake her up. She craves and desires a masterful lover. She dreams about it.

Just the dominant/submissive question alone speaks volumes. I have been with a few men in my lifetime and until recently, not a one ever knew I prefer the submissive role in the bedroom. They all thought they knew me, but never really did. The lovers in my past would be shocked to know this about me actually. I never told them to be honest because there wasn't a single one that would have gotten it.

This doesn't mean they were bad lovers, I have had the orgasms, but they weren't great lovers. A great lover knows these things instinctively because he is in tune with a woman's sexuality. A great lover awakens something primal in his partner. Can you do this. He has taken the time to learn what women want in bed.

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Does your partner respond to you like this video clip. You can be she wants too? If you have never seen this movie, well let me summarize. Mickey Rourke knew how to push the buttons in Kim Bassinger's mind to get her to show him what it was she really really wanted in bed. This is a masterful lover.

Why She Won't Tell You What She Wants in Bed

Women do want certain things in bed, mainly mind blowing sex and a deep connection to go with it. She won't tell you how to get there most of the time. A woman often fears how you will react of what you will think of her if she tells you of her deepest desires. It goes hand in hand with that fear of rejection, which I am sure you are all too familiar with.

She is probably fearful also that you won't take it well. If you are have been in a relationship or married for a while, we women already know to how men react to change. If all of a sudden we start wanting something different, we think you are going to get suspicious. We also are all too in tuned to your male ego. We don't want to hurt your feelings or rock the boat.

Then there is the woman who has been faking it forever and she is tired of it. She may not be faking orgasm, but she may be faking or lying about how great the sex is. If you have been together a long time, have you dared lately to ask her what she wants? If not, chances are good, you have a lot of room for improvement. You might be good, but you could probably be really great for her if you would put in the effort.

Women feel it's your place to make this move. We see a man that we have to lead as weak. We crave, desire a man to take our interests and needs in the bedroom to heart. The one thing that keeps us from telling you what we want in the bedroom may be the one thing that keeps you from digging into it. Fear of rejection.

If you think she may not be open to it, it's easier to just keep on doing what you are doing right? If you think she will also start to get suspicious, thinking you are wanting it elsewhere, again you may just decide to not rock the boat. Chances are, you really don't know how or where to start to take sex from good to great.

This is sad. We women really do want a man who knows exactly what to do to push our buttons and give us multiple orgasms and if you think your woman isn't capable or just doesn't enjoy sex, you are dead wrong, she is and she can enjoy sex. What she wants in bed is for you to be her ultimate lover.

It takes a brave and superior man to really dive into this subject and become the lover she always wished she had. I would venture to say the majority of women have not had this kind of lover and if she has, it was probably only once, twice at the most and it may not have been you. Something else we will never tell you.

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What Do Women NOT Want In Bed

I am going to be real here. I have polled over 200 women about what they don't like in bed. It was pretty enlightening. It seems that my claim most men don't know what they don't know is pretty accurate. I am just going to list the top 20 complaints I got from women about their men in bed. I hope you don't fall into any of these. We really do want you to know though. We just don't want to tell you. We worry we will hurt your feelings or open a can of worms that will drive a wedge into the relationship. Do you really know what women want in bed or do you think you know?

1. Cindy says she can expect the same thing everytime. Her boyfriend fingers her to orgasm, then climbs on top and gets his. Same thing everytime. She is bored.

3. Lindsey said her guy will go down on her, get her almost there, but never finishes. She said he honestly doesn't know when she has an orgasm or not.

4. Tina said no foreplay at all. Her husband rubs on her a few minutes, maybe her back and hops on top.

5. Kayla says her guy thinks the moment she is wet, it's time to put it in. He assumes because she is wet, she is ready.

6. Roxie's guy gropes her roughly, she has tried to tell him to slow it down and be gentle, but he gets carried away with his own pleasure and doesn't pay her any attention.

7. Diane said her tits hurt like hell after sex. Her husband grabs them and kneads them much like biscuit dough. She has told him jokingly, but he still does it.

8. Betsy's guy fingers her a long time, but he doesn't get it right. He never seems to hit the spot, she has had a few orgasms by shear chance, but for the most part, it's just uncomfortable.

9. Jennifer says her guy of 3 years is always wanting a blow job. She doesn't mind, but wishes he was as enthusiastic when it came to going down on her.

10. Sarah dates a guy obsessed with entering her back door. She is against this, but he is constantly referring to it.

In summary, there were 16 women who were completely satisfied. The rest did not have orgasms everytime and were usually left frustrated. A few had never had an orgasm with their partners. Some after years could count them on one hand and it was rare to have a woman remark she could have a vaginal orgasm.

So what's going on? Is it communication? Some of this may be hard to believe, but from my own experience and that of my closest friends, I can tell you, it's pretty accurate. I dated a guy a year and never once had an orgasm with him. He did not know, he assumed I did. I dated another guy for 8 years and had 1 orgasm and I had to do most of the work to make that happen. I could go on and on. One of my best friends just cheated on her boyfriend. She had tried to tell him he wasn't doing it for her, but he got offended and defensive, which is why we don't tell you.

I have had in my lifetime 1 partner that got it and could hit it out the ball park and it had nothing to do with the size of his penis. One! Now there were a few that were really good, but great? No, just one. Sad.

So why aren't you guys doing more to find out what women want in bed? What's up with that. You think if it's not broke why fix it. You think it's good. What's wrong with taking good to great? Women can and want to take it to higher levels. We are built that way. We can orgasm more than once. We are reluctant to let go of the skillful lover. Is that you?