Ok guys some reality here. I know you are already pretty good, I mean she moans, her breathing is heavy and you think she might have came, but are you really sure? Women do fake it because they worry it's too much work for you to really make her orgasm like she wants to. This is so very common. It's hard for a lot of women to communicate what they really want in bed. It wouldn't hurt to ask her just so you know.
I talk to hundreds of women every day and very few of them are satisfied by their partners bedroom skills. Funny thing though they don't let the partner know this, they don't want to hurt his ego. True story, I have a friend who recently when having sex with her partner of two years started talking dirty, telling him what to do. Now she always wanted to do this, but what happened is he freaked. It wasn't her normal behavior. The sex stopped and the fight started. What happened here? No communication maybe. She had been holding back for two years.
One of the biggest mistakes I think men make is they think because the woman is soaking wet she is ready. He mounts her and thinks she is loving it. This is not the case. If you think she is ready, don't be so sure. To be safe continue with the stroking, licking and touching for at least 15 more minutes, if you really want to rock her world, do it for 30 more. Don't assume she is ready just because she is wet. Let her tell you when she is ready. To please a woman in bed, you need to pay attention to her body and how it responds to what you are doing.
Another annoying thing men do that women complain about is the breast fondling thing. A man will latch onto one breast and almost rub it raw or suck it to death. To most women this does not feel good. Rotate from one breast to the other, don't focus completely on the nipple. Jesus it kills us. Engage the entire breast. Kiss her shoulders and neck as well. Breast really aren't a huge turn on for most of us believe it or not.
Just a few tips for you guys. Thanks. For step by step techniques, click here.
Friday, September 10, 2010
Sunday, September 5, 2010
Secrets to Give Her Mind Blowing Orgasms
All men like to think they are kings in the bedroom, maybe some are, but most really don't know. Its not really the man's fault, its the women for not telling them what they want, after all you guys aren't mind readers. We know what we like, but its uncomfortable to most women to open up and tell you. So what's the secret to make her orgasm?
I recently had an ex show up on my doorstep. He remarked how good he was in bed. I raised my eyebrows and said, now I am going to tell you the truth. Now since we are apart I felt I could do that. I told him that although he was not bad at all, it never happened for me. He did not take the time necessary to figure out what I liked, he just did what he thought all women liked. I liked him, so I did not complain, my mistake. Had he slowed down and just used a few good fingering techniques, I would have seen stars.
Most men offer a little foreplay, they think just because the woman is wet, aha, she is hot and ready. That's not how it works. Women have to be warmed up slowly. If you go straight for the spot before she is wet, it can be uncomfortable. Teasing is the best way to warm a woman up. Touch her everywhere, but leave the magic place alone, get her throbbing and aching. When you do touch her intimately, do so for just a short while, then stop. Do this over and over. Tease her mercilessly. Finger her, lick her softly, then stop. Giving her mind blowing orgasms often takes time and patience.
When a woman has been teased, she will be begging for your touch, whether its if you finger her, lick her, it does not matter as long as you do it with skill, she will orgasm fast and hard. Depending on how skilled you are, you just may get her to orgasm multiple times. Women really aren't that hard to please, we just need a man willing to forget what he thinks works and find out what really does.
Learn what women really like and what really drives them wild in bed. Turn your woman into your sex Goddess and have her begging for more over and over again.
Don't assume you know it all. I talk to women all the time. Often we are trying to spare your feelings. In my lifetime honestly, I have only met a couple of guys that got the job done, but many who thought they got it done and didn't. Don't be one of these guys. Learn how by clicking here.
I recently had an ex show up on my doorstep. He remarked how good he was in bed. I raised my eyebrows and said, now I am going to tell you the truth. Now since we are apart I felt I could do that. I told him that although he was not bad at all, it never happened for me. He did not take the time necessary to figure out what I liked, he just did what he thought all women liked. I liked him, so I did not complain, my mistake. Had he slowed down and just used a few good fingering techniques, I would have seen stars.
Most men offer a little foreplay, they think just because the woman is wet, aha, she is hot and ready. That's not how it works. Women have to be warmed up slowly. If you go straight for the spot before she is wet, it can be uncomfortable. Teasing is the best way to warm a woman up. Touch her everywhere, but leave the magic place alone, get her throbbing and aching. When you do touch her intimately, do so for just a short while, then stop. Do this over and over. Tease her mercilessly. Finger her, lick her softly, then stop. Giving her mind blowing orgasms often takes time and patience.
When a woman has been teased, she will be begging for your touch, whether its if you finger her, lick her, it does not matter as long as you do it with skill, she will orgasm fast and hard. Depending on how skilled you are, you just may get her to orgasm multiple times. Women really aren't that hard to please, we just need a man willing to forget what he thinks works and find out what really does.
Learn what women really like and what really drives them wild in bed. Turn your woman into your sex Goddess and have her begging for more over and over again.
Don't assume you know it all. I talk to women all the time. Often we are trying to spare your feelings. In my lifetime honestly, I have only met a couple of guys that got the job done, but many who thought they got it done and didn't. Don't be one of these guys. Learn how by clicking here.
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