How to Make a Woman Scream In Bed

Well this subject interests me. I have asked a lot of women if they are screamers and let me tell you, most are not. I have talked to hundreds of women and two said they had been with men that made them scream in bed. So here is the question. Is it just not common that women scream in bed or is it that they just haven't been taken to that level. So is it the woman or the man who is responsible here.

Now another view here. Those porn flicks. All the women scream in those. Is this normal? Is it just acting? Do men watch these and just think it's the norm when it's not? I personally haven't really screamed like an ape or anything like those women in those flicks do. Does that mean my man isn't doing it right? Could a man who hasn't ever had a woman scream in bed, learn how to bring her to that point?

Now these same women who said they had never screamed in bed did say however, that some men just did it for them more than others. They had been breathless, had multiple orgasms and were out of control. The just didn't scream.

Let's explore another angle. Don't you think we feel a little silly screaming in bed? I mean if we aren't super confident, this is going to be a chore here to let lose and shout out an ear piercing scream. We have to be really comfortable with you to do this, I can assure you.

I would venture so far as to say if you have a screaming woman in bed and it's the first time, she just faked it on you big time.

Do I think men can probably learn how to make a woman scream in bed. Yes I do. I think he better be willing to put in some time and effort though and learn a few skills. I am not so convinced that every woman will be able to scream in bed, but I am convinced that every woman can have what she describes as a screaming orgasm.

How to Touch a Woman to Turn Her On

Seems like a simple thing doesn't it? Touching a woman that is. Well if they all were alike, it would be, but they aren't. What does it for one woman, doesn't work on another.

If you want to turn her on you have to be able to really pay attention. Don't think that going straight for the sweet wet spot is all there is to it. There is so much more to it. Women have many pleasure zones. If you want to really turn her on, explore her body and find her zones.

There is nothing more frustrating to a woman than to be making out and he goes straight down south with his hands or fingers. Foreplay really is the key. If you take the time to find out her hot spots and linger there prior to going for the kitty, her orgasm is going to come quicker and be stronger.

The neck and ears are usually a sure place to kiss or touch. Spend time there. Don't do a hit and run. You can tell if a woman is enjoying your touch by how she reacts. I swear so many men get caught up in their own pulsing penis that they just miss her body signal by a mile. Listen to her breathing, is she moaning a little? Pay attention. If she gets stiff, she isn't liking your touch.

The lower abdomen is also usually a sure bet, I mean really low. Rub her softly about 4 inches below her belly button. Try different pressures. Soft and go harder, test her breathing. Which touch does she respond to. Some like it gentle, some like it rough. Don't assume she is like your last girlfriend, she isn't. Inner thighs seem to be a hot spot also.

Now how can I write this blog post and not mention breasts? No way. Fact is some women are stimulated by touching, kissing, licking, sucking the breasts and some are not. Know if she is or isn't. If a woman has really sensitive breasts, this causes her discomfort and it will be a turn off, not a turn on.

Bottom line, explore different places, different degrees of touch, soft hard and PAY ATTENTION. All women are not created equal. If you want to intensify her orgasms, take your time, learn her body and don't just hop on and hump away as soon as she gets wet or shows signs of arousal. Tease and please her.