Staying Hard When Putting On a Condom

Staying Hard When Putting On The Condom

by Alex Allman, Author of Revolutionary Sex


There is not a guy in the world who has
never had a problem "getting it up" at least a
few times in his life... and any guy that tells you
otherwise is lying.

It can strike any time, and like some kind
of cruel joke, it usually decides to happen when
the stakes are high... you are a with a woman you are
especially attracted to, or that you are have strong
feelings for and really want to impress.

Doh!

And maybe the worst part is...

If it happens once, it has this nasty habit
of happening again... because the very next time
you are in bed with a woman (or the same woman),
all you can think about is... "damn! I sure hope
THAT doesn't happen again!"

And that's pretty much the surest way to
make it happen again... or... um... NOT happen might
be a better way to put it.

So maybe you try fantasizing about something
that you KNOW has worked in the past-- maybe some
other girl or situation.

Most guys have tried that route, and so you
probably know that it usually doesn't work so well. It's
just one more train of thought that interferes with
getting into what you are doing in the here and now.

And if she says or does anything that
interrupts your fantasy, it takes you right back
to where you were before.

Or maybe you've been in the situation where
everything seems good to go, you get good and hard,
and then something interrupts the flow...

...like, say, putting on a condom...

...and suddenly, the game is off.

Ug.

I get a lot of emails about this particular
one... men saying that the interruption of putting
on the condom can not only wilt their erection, but
then make it even more difficult to get hard again.

I wish I didn't have such vivid pictures of
it in my own head, but like I said, EVERYONE'S been
there.

And listen carefully now: Don't ever use
this as an excuse to go without protection. That's
just stupid.

You need to learn a better way.

Thankfully, I never have this particular
problem any more. I've learned a lot of great
techniques for dealing with it, and I'm going to
share a few of the best ones right here in this
newsletter.

First off, I guess I should mention for the
sake of honesty and accuracy, that the various
pills that are available from your doctor, that I
won't mention by name (though the most popular one
starts with a "V"), all work very well.

But I don't recommend you go that route.

You can... but remember that you can very
quickly become dependent on them as a crutch whenever
you want to get things going...

That can get expensive. And it can kill
the spontaneous moment when you want to do it
RIGHT NOW.

And more importantly... it can mess with
your confidence and your ego.

For some guys, however, these pharmaceuticals
can be very helpful to get over the initial hurdle... but
for other guys it makes the situation worse because,
psychologically they feel they really NEED the pills, and
it stops them from EVER doing it the "normal" way.

I don't know your particular situation, but
I promise you, if you can get hard when you do it
alone, then you don't have a medical condition and
you definitely do NOT NEED those pills.

So let's begin at the beginning:

>>The Problem Is In Your Head

This the most important thing to remember
here. It is in YOUR head, and if it is in YOUR
head then YOU can fix it.

Let me go back and mention again that I
am assuming that you CAN get it up when you are
alone. If this is NOT the case, then the problem
could, in fact, be physical, and you need to talk
to your doctor about it as soon as possible as it
might indicate a more serious problem.

Okay, so if you're still with me, then the
problem, we agree, is in your head.

And that's a good thing, because your head
is something that you can learn to control.

I read quite a few books and articles on
the subject of performance anxiety, and how it
was related to stress, and all of these other
factors, and all of these exercises to help you
get over it...

And none of it really worked that well for
me... or any of the men that I've counseled since
then.

Most of the time, I'd be okay, but then
once in a while I'd have a little "problem" and
the next thing I knew, I'd be in a cycle of having
that little problem, because it made me more and
more nervous that it would happen again.

Well, believe it or not, I found the seed
of the answer in Eastern Philosophy.

>>Quiet The Chattering Monkey Mind

That's what the Zen masters and Yoga gurus
call it...

You know, when you just can't shut your
brain off... like when you can't fall asleep at
night because of all of these thoughts swirling
around in your head that just won't shut up...

Or when you are in bed with a beautiful
woman and you've got all of these other thoughts
running through your mind...

what about what's going on at work...
am I going for it too soon...
what if she thinks I'm lame in bed...
what if she thinks my dick is too small...
I wonder what she's thinking right now...
What if I can't get it up again...
Has she noticed yet that I'm not hard...

That, my friend, is the Chattering Monkey
Mind.

And is it any wonder, with all of that crap
running around in your head, that you can't focus
on what you are doing? That you can't get into
it?

The bottom line is that you need to learn
how to quiet this chattering monkey. It is doing
you no good at all... and it is hurting you in the
bedroom.

Worse, it is probably hurting you in other
areas of your life too... this is just the one
that you may be aware of.

Becoming aware that this is the problem--
and believe it or not, this really is very likely
the ONLY problem that you have with getting it up--
is the first step to solving it for good.

And what's more, I absolutely guarantee
that if you can quiet these intrusive voices in
your mind, you will never have this problem, ever
again.

So, now it's just a matter of learning
that control.

If you want WAY more information on
this particular method, I explain this powerful
technique for eliminating performance problems
in detail starting on page 16 of my eBook. You
can read it now, right here:

Overcome Performance Anxiety

If you really have a serious problem with
this and you've really been struggling with it for
a long time, I strongly recommend that you take up
a meditation practice.

That's what all those Zen Masters and Yoga
Gurus do to quiet their Chattering Monkey Minds--
and it works.

Take a class or get a book, and start a
meditation practice in you life.

Aside from the many benefits to your stress
level and brain function, it TEACHES you to control
your mind. And that is a very, very useful thing
to learn. It's no different from lifting weights to
build your muscles... except that you are building
strength in a function of your brain.

But okay, I know you are thinking you want
something you can use RIGHT NOW...

Don't worry. I'm not gonna let you down.


>>Say Something

This is a really great way of eliminating
one of the loudest chattering monkeys that most
guys deal with.

I've found that MOST guys who have had
problems in this area say that the thing that worries
them the most, the one that really loops around in
their head, is: "I wonder what she is thinking right
now... I wonder if she has noticed that I'm not
hard."

Because this is the worst of the chattering
monkeys for most guys, it is the one that creates
the biggest problem for getting "into it" and
getting hard.

So, first, let me give you the answer so
that you can stop wondering... yes, she has noticed
that you are not hard.

But the good news is that she is NOT
thinking that you are a loser because you can't
get it up... she's thinking that SHE is a loser.

Yep. You heard me right.

Because, you see, women are just as messed
up and insecure as we are. Maybe even more.

And what she's thinking is... "oh my God,
he's not into me. He doesn't like my body now that
he sees me naked... I'm doing something wrong...
Maybe I smell bad... he thinks my breasts look
weird."

Here's another thing she's thinking: "oh no,
not again."

Because unless she is a virgin, she has
experienced this situation before with other men...
because, like I said, it happens to all men from
time to time. So it's not like you are the first
guy she has ever been with where this happened.

The bottom line is... IT'S NO BIG DEAL...

If you just SAY something to her about
it.

Instead of wondering what she is thinking
while she is wondering what you are thinking...

Just TELL her what to think.

Tell her something like, "don't worry, just
a little stress at work. Sometimes it takes me
a little longer. It's not you at all. I'm
very attracted to you, and if you are a little bit
patient, everything will be working fine in just
a few minutes... and if not, I promise, I'll take
good care of you either way."

She will be so relieved and pleased that
you were man enough to say something that she will
become as happy as a kitten with manual and oral
sex, and it takes the pressure off of you, so you
can just enjoy yourself.

And then just do that... enjoy yourself.

Enjoy touching her and having her touch
you. And in no time, if you just stop worrying
about it, your little champ will join in on the fun.

>> Don't Think About The Champ

And while I'm on it... the other monkey
that chatters in every guy's head when he's
having trouble getting it up is... thinking about
getting it up.

Is it hard yet?

Is it hard yet?

I think I feel it starting to... oh, no...
not yet...

Is it hard yet?

Shut that switch OFF!

I know, easier said than done. But once
you reassure the girl you are with that it's
nothing to think about, you need to take the same
advice.

As I said above, the key is "becoming
present." If your situation is minor, you will
find just this advice is enough to unlock the door
for you.

But if you need more to understand "becoming
present" then get my book, or take a class in
meditation, or... do both.

Okay, here's the hard sell:

Get the book.

Because there is way more to be an amazing
lover than just getting hard... though, let's face
it, that's a very important start!

But you shouldn't settle for just the
minimum, and if she is a woman of high quality,
then she won't either.

Learn to be the best lover that she has
ever even dared to imagine.

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Sexual Intercourse Techniques

Female Ejaculation Techniques -Teach her How to Squirt

Is female ejaculation (sometimes called
"squirting") real?

Yes. It's absolutely real. Women can ejaculate
a large amount of clear liquid when they have a
specific kind of deep orgasm.

But most men will never experience this kind of
thing with their partner.

The thicker, whitish stuff that sometimes
comes out in surprising amounts is actually just
the normal lubrication of her vagina. It’s totally
normal and nothing to worry about.

But female ejaculation comes out much more
water-like, it is clear, and it is completely
odorless. It's produced by a separate set of
glands in her body called the intra-urethral
glands (sometimes called the Skene's gland).

And it happens only as a result of a special
type of orgasm. Usually after a very long
build-up and then a “blended” orgasm from
both the clitoris and g spot at the same time.

Also, as the "squirting orgasm" builds many women
feel the urge to pee (this is actually the sensation
of the glands filling).

So in this article I'd like to talk a little bit
about why some women can have such intense orgasms,
how a WOMAN can begin to intensify her own orgasms,
and how a skilled partner (that's YOU) can help her
get there.

When a man masters her body in this way,
she can have sexual pleasure that she probably
can't even imagine until she has experienced it.

There are a couple of factors that make this
possible...

First is the "build up" of sexual tension.

When she is alone and masturbating, she is
probably not as excited and nervous, and full
of wild, untamed energy as she would be with a
man (or same sex partner) who is really turning
her on.

You know that feeling of powerful anticipation
you get when you are going to do something dangerous...
or something that just "seems" dangerous, like a
roller-coaster or bungee jumping? Have you ever felt
that way with a sexual partner? Have you ever felt
that awesome lust and crazy nervous energy
around someone you were just super-attracted to?

Well, probably you don't feel that way before
masturbation... and neither does she.

And this build-up is a big part of creating
the sexual magic that I'm talking about.

There's a lot more information about this
part of sex... the seduction before the love-
making to get a woman incredibly turned on in
my eBook... a guy can actually learn to CREATE
that crazy, standing-in-the-roller-coaster-line
energy in a woman.

The second part is prolonging the build-up
and building the excitement level to a breaking
point.

This is also hard for her to do alone.

**Give her this tip: Breathing deeply and
slowly, surfing the sexual pleasure instead
of forcing it, is a good way to visualize what
you should be doing.

For you, the man, the idea is to bring her close,
and then back her slightly off the peak over
and over, for as long as she can stand it...
and then give her "permission" to come--
giving her an exponentially more powerful orgasm.

A skilled partner can also begin to string
multiple orgasms together to bring her to higher
and higher points of pleasure.

These multiple and stacked orgasms can reach
a level where she might actually think she's
going insane from the intensity of the experience.

It's not something she is ever going to be able
to do by herself.

Now, for the "squirting orgasm" there are
some other factors involved.

Women can have incredibly powerful orgasms
without ever having an ejaculation... but for
women who do squirt, they say there is an extra
feeling of "complete release" that makes them
feel very purged, clean, and even spiritually
satisfied afterwards... even though it might
not always be the most powerful orgasm.

My friend Tallulah sat down and talked to
me about this for a long time-- she is probably
the ultimate expert on female ejaculation...
She's a sexologist who actually teaches live
workshops for women on how they can have this
experience.

As she told me from her own experience in
teaching women in her workshops--
"there is no woman that can't learn to squirt
because every woman has the anatomy to do it."

She also gave this great tip that many women
find extremely helpful...

Female Ejaculation is like "giving birth to
your orgasm."

Here's how to teach your woman what to do:

Put your finger into her vagina and press
up against her g spot.

For more information on how to find the
g spot, you can go here:

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Then tell her to push her g spot back against
your finger with the muscles of her vagina.

At first this may be awkward, it may feel
uncomfortable for her, it may even be impossible...

Keep practicing. This exercise is a great
short-cut to teaching her how to squirt.

(Tallulah is such an incredible source of
information on this subject, and the subject of
female orgasm in general, that I got her to sit
down and do an interview with me for my "Interviews
With Sex Gurus" audio series. It is AWESOME.)

Okay, finally, sometimes when a woman feels like
she is about to have a really intense orgasm, she
starts to breath faster and faster... or... much
worse... she holds her breath.

She shouldn't do either.

Tell her to just breath deeply and slowly
in time with the waves of pleasure. It will begin
to feel like she is "surfing" the waves of pleasure
with her breath when she gets this rhythm right.

Don't let her freak out and start panic-breathing or
holding her breath as she feels it coming on...
talk gently to her, win her trust, and tell her to
just relax and keep surfing.

Oh... I almost forgot the most important tip
of all...

Before you do all this stuff, put some towels
down on the bed. The first time you experience
full female ejaculation you might be surprised
by the amount of fluid that comes out.

These tips will get you started in a big way...
and hopefully give you and your girl more fulfilling,
powerful, and passionate sexual pleasure.

For a lot more step-by-step tips on female ejaculation,
including "trouble shooting" tips for girls who are
"almost there", check out my online eBook:
Click Here For More Female Ejaculation Techniques

Orgasm Techniques That Work On Every Woman

The One Technique That "Works" On EVERY Woman

By Alex Allman, Author Of "Revolutionary Sex"


I hate generalizations when it comes to women
but... yes, there is one thing that works on EVERY
woman in the bedroom.

Which is pretty amazing because women can be
very, very different when it comes to what "works."

If you've had a couple of serious
girlfriends in your life... serious enough that you
stopped pretending for each other and really TALKED
about what she "secretly" likes in the bedroom...

Especially if you've had that conversation with
more than one woman, then you already know-- different
women like REALLY... almost WEIRDLY... different things
between the sheets. Like... spectacularly different...
even opposite things sometimes.

Not only that, but often they like
different things at different times in their life
and they can change their minds insanely quickly.

And not only that, but sometimes what
really gets them off in bed changes depending on their
mood in that MOMENT.

*sigh* ...women.

And even though all of that is absolutely
true, there is still ONE thing that, if you know
the secret to it, will work on EVERY woman, EVERY
time, no matter who she is, what stage of life, or
what mood she's in.

Yep. It's that good.

If you've already read my eBook, "Revolutionary
Sex," then you are smiling and nodding, because you already
KNOW what the secret is, and you've got the very happy girl
in your bed to prove it.

Have you figured out what the one thing is
that "works" on all women?

If you are guessing that it has something
to do with being "extra large" you are so
misinformed that I don't know where to begin. You
need my book very, very badly.

If you are thinking that it requires the
"endurance" of a marathon runner on steroids and
the ability to "hold back" forever, you are almost
as wrong-headed.

Of course, it is very important to learn
the simple techniques of lasting long enough to
please your woman... but also that is for YOUR
pleasure, so that you can relax and really enjoy
the experience together. And I talk about how to
do that in my book.

But a guy can last all day long and NEVER
really drive his girl crazy with pleasure if he
doesn't know what he's doing.

In fact, there are many, many girls who will
tell you that they WISH the guy they were with
would finish SOONER because it's getting her
nowhere except more and more frustrated as he keeps
going at it.

If you're thinking of some kind of
technique or position, or something you do with
your tongue or fingers, you're still way off.

And it's not a matter of how fast, how
slow, how hard, or how gentle.

Nope.

Because for every one of these things, you
will find girls who disagree about what REALLY
works for them individually.

The one thing that every woman secretly
dreams of, that will drive every woman wild is a
simple two-word answer.

And if you can really perfect this one
skill, you will become the kind of man that a woman
will do almost ANYTHING to keep around.

The G spot?

No. But the G spot started me on the road
to figuring it all out...

I remember when I first learned how to find
the G-spot on a woman. And, coincidentally, I found out
about it from a book.

I was a freshman in college and, of course,
I had HEARD about the legendary G-spot... but I was
too embarrassed to ASK anyone where it was.

So, I went to the library. These days, of
course, you can just hit the internet and go to
wikipedia.org and get an instant answer complete
with a diagram... so if you don't know where it is,
go check that out right now...

As it turned out, the g spot worked amazingly well
to launch my girlfriend at the time into the stratosphere.

But...

Weirdly and frustratingly enough--

It didn't work AT ALL on my next girlfriend. She
could only have an orgasm with clitoral stimulation. In
fact, when I touched her g spot, she said it was uncomfortable
and felt "like a gynecologist examination."

Little by little I learned that every woman is
different and has to be touched differently.

And, as I got better at finding out quickly
what worked on different women, I accidentally discovered
that I had stumbled upon something amazing...

The One Thing That "Works" On Every Woman.

The thing that every woman wants is a guy
who knows just...

this...

one...

thing...

Pay Attention.

No, I'm not saying to pay attention to what
I'm about to say... "Pay Attention" is the answer.

Unfortunately, while the answer is
simple... it's only two words after all... most
guys will never learn to do it quite right.

You see, once I discovered that what worked
on one women wouldn't work on EVERY woman, I began to
wonder if there was a way to figure out what any
individual woman was into.

And one of the first things I realized is
that "asking her" does NOT work.

Not only is that a turn-off for many women,
but, amazingly, most women don't even KNOW what
really drives them wild because most women have
never been with a guy who was really amazing in bed.

So they never even realized that there are
things that could take them higher than they ever
dreamed of... much higher than they had ever gone
through masturbation.

When you are making love to a woman,
learning to pay attention to the subtle signals
that her body is sending you, and UNDERSTANDING
what they are saying, is the one skill that will
allow you to unlock the door to every fantasy that
she has ever had.

Not convinced?

Okay, well, here's something for you to
think about that will change your mind.

Remember I was just talking about the g spot
and how it can send some women right into orbit?

Well, as it turns out, that's true of MOST
women.

But what's really amazing is...

A woman can't reach her own g spot.

That's right. Without a partner, a woman
would likely NEVER find her own g-spot.

(Sure, I know that there are "adult toys" that
she can buy to get up there, but if she has never
had someone else do it, it is very unlikely that she'd
know what she was missing... and frankly it would just
be weird and embarrassing for her to buy the thing).

Think about how DIFFERENT this is from
being a man... how different from YOU.

I mean, as guys, we pretty much KNOW
everything that's going to feel good on us.

But women don't.

In fact, the first time you give a woman
a stacked multiple orgasm (page 104 in the book) she
will probably completely freak out... because she
never suspected that she was even CAPABLE of that
kind of pleasure.

That's why "paying attention" is a much
bigger concept than you can imagine.

Women communicate on a much more sub-text
level than men.

A woman may say, "harder, harder," but if
you think that's all she means, you are very wrong.

And, like I said... even SHE might not know
what she means. That could be the moment to hold
back from going harder to tease her into an even
deeper state of arousal.

To understand a woman in bed you have to
pay attention to what her BODY is saying.

You have to learn to listen to her
breathing and the tension in her muscles, you have
to be able to feel and decode all of the messages
that her body is sending to yours.

And that is not something you can do with
your brain.

You can't "figure it out."

You have to just listen. Listen with your
whole body.

And then, of course, you have to pay
attention.

In this way, you will know EXACTLY what to
do, and EXACTLY how to do it... for ANY woman.

And when she finds a guy who can do that...

It is as if she has found a man who can
read her mind. She feels like you were actually
made specially just for her. Like you are the
PERFECT LOVER that she has always dreamed about.

I know that this is starting to sound
complicated. But if there is a woman in your life
that you want to really drive completely wild, then
I can't tell you how important it is to spend a bit
of time to understand this stuff.

Because the simple truth of "pay attention"
is not so simple to explain in practice.

Once you see it all in context with all of
the specific techniques, it will make TOTAL SENSE.

You will get that "a-ha!" moment.

The moment you realize that it's not just
what you learn to DO by paying attention, but the
very act of becoming totally absorbed in HER, brings
you both into a state of amazing connected intimacy.

This state opens her to possibilities of
pleasure that can not be reached by touch alone.

I have spent years and years of my life
figuring this stuff out. And figuring out how to
share the information in a way that other guys could
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I'm so sure that the information in my book
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Female Orgasm Techniques

How To Last Longer In Bed

Learn To Last Longer In Bed

by Alex Allman, author of "Revolutionary Sex"


So there you are in bed with this beautiful girl and things are getting hotter by the second. You penetrate her and she gasps with pleasure... she starts wriggling her hips against your body... and she makes that soft moaning sound in your ear...

And it's just... too... damn... hot!

And just like that, it's over, nearly before it got started.

Sound familiar?

Just about every guy on Earth has been through that one...

Or sometimes you can go a bit longer... and she's getting very close to having the orgasm of her life... you can feel it building like the pressure behind the dams of New Orleans during Hurricane Katrina... She's digging her nails into your back and she manages to get the words out between panting breaths: "I'm almost there...!"

And that does it. Whoosh. It's over. Right... before... that orgasm of her life.

And if you think it's frustrating for YOU... Haaa! Yes, man, it is even more frustrating for her. Especially if it happens over and over again.

The worst part?

It probably WILL happen over and over again... because when it happens the first time, it shakes your confidence. You feel a certain level of anxiety the next time. You really want to impress her...

And guess what is the number one cause of ejaculating too soon?

If you said, "anxiety over ejaculating too soon," then you probably made more than just a lucky guess.

So look, I'm not going to lie to you. I know plenty of guys who have lost their woman over this kind of thing, and plenty of women who, after a lot of soul-searching, left a man that they really cared about because she just couldn't get what she needed sexually. It just made more sense to become "just friends".

The good news is that ANY man... and yes, I do mean ANY guy can learn how to last as long as he wants in the sack.

And while many men have written to me with the wrong-headed idea that their penis is just more sensitive than anyone else's is, the fact of the matter is that 99% of premature ejaculation is 100% in the head. It really does come down to that level of sexual anxiety.

There's also an entire other group of guys who think that they are ejaculating too soon... but actually last well above average... they just don't realize that it's okay to take a little break and change positions now and then. Sex is not a sprinter's event.

Relax. Take your time.

And if you have been making love for 30 minutes and your woman hasn't had an orgasm yet, it's not because you can't last long enough... it's because you aren't pushing her buttons in the right way. With the right sexual skills you can get her to orgasm far more easily and more frequently... WITHOUT having to learn to last longer.

In other words: You probably haven't read my book yet.

And for what it's worth, you may be very relieved to hear: The vast majority of men don't last over 5 minutes of continuous thrusting.

That doesn't mean you can't make love all night long... it just means that sawing away inside of her without stopping is not the right way to do it.

Now, with that said, I believe that a man should learn total control. You should be able to control your ejaculation virtually at will. The reason I believe this is because it is YOUR body. And just as we control our other body functions, just as we don't wet the bed as adults, just as we control fear when we must, and we don't cry when the doctor gives us our flu shot, this is one more area where a man should learn to master himself.

There are many techniques for lasting longer... some work better than others, and some work better for different individuals.

The grand-daddy of them all is known as the "baseball method", or the "distraction method", which basically means that you distract yourself by thinking about something else (like memorizing baseball statistics) while having sex.

This one has been around so long because it is reasonably effective. And it's worth learning and experimenting with because it does help to train your MIND to do what you want it to do... and, like I said, 99% of this skill is in your head.

And while it is not one of the more powerful techniques, it is effective enough to show you this: If you can normally last 30 seconds, and this technique gets you to 60 seconds, then you have just PROVEN to yourself that with practice and the right information, you could ultimately learn to go from 1 minute to 2, and from 2 to 4, and ultimately to hours.

But the main downside to this technique is that it is boring. It takes you out of the fun of sex. And it takes you out of being "present" in the moment with your girl... which, by the way, while allowing you last longer, will probably also make her feel like you are not very passionate nor very good in bed.

Ouch.

Fortunately there are many other, more powerful techniques.

I've written a lot on this subject and it frustrates me when some guy writes back and says, "hey Alex, I tried that thing you teach and it didn't work for me."

That's like a guy reading an article about how to snow board, falling down as he gets off the lift, and saying, "it didn't work."

If you have a serious issue with this, and you are ready to learn how to last as long as any woman can stand it, and you're willing to put in a little bit of practice, I've prepared a free video and free (yes, yes, it's actually free) downloadable strategy guide with all of the best techniques for you to start using right away.

Your welcome.

You can get both right here:

Last Longer In Bed: Total Ejaculation Domination

Why She Won't Tell You What She Wants in Bed

Women do want certain things in bed, mainly mind blowing sex and a deep connection to go with it. She won't tell you how to get there most of the time. A woman often fears how you will react of what you will think of her if she tells you of her deepest desires. It goes hand in hand with that fear of rejection, which I am sure you are all too familiar with.

She is probably fearful also that you won't take it well. If you are have been in a relationship or married for a while, we women already know to how men react to change. If all of a sudden we start wanting something different, we think you are going to get suspicious. We also are all too in tuned to your male ego. We don't want to hurt your feelings or rock the boat.

Then there is the woman who has been faking it forever and she is tired of it. She may not be faking orgasm, but she may be faking or lying about how great the sex is. If you have been together a long time, have you dared lately to ask her what she wants? If not, chances are good, you have a lot of room for improvement. You might be good, but you could probably be really great for her if you would put in the effort.

Women feel it's your place to make this move. We see a man that we have to lead as weak. We crave, desire a man to take our interests and needs in the bedroom to heart. The one thing that keeps us from telling you what we want in the bedroom may be the one thing that keeps you from digging into it. Fear of rejection.

If you think she may not be open to it, it's easier to just keep on doing what you are doing right? If you think she will also start to get suspicious, thinking you are wanting it elsewhere, again you may just decide to not rock the boat. Chances are, you really don't know how or where to start to take sex from good to great.

This is sad. We women really do want a man who knows exactly what to do to push our buttons and give us multiple orgasms and if you think your woman isn't capable or just doesn't enjoy sex, you are dead wrong, she is and she can enjoy sex. What she wants in bed is for you to be her ultimate lover.

It takes a brave and superior man to really dive into this subject and become the lover she always wished she had. I would venture to say the majority of women have not had this kind of lover and if she has, it was probably only once, twice at the most and it may not have been you. Something else we will never tell you.

We want you to take the lead, we want you to understand about Revolutionary Sex.