Sunday, September 5, 2010

Secrets to Give Her Mind Blowing Orgasms

All men like to think they are kings in the bedroom, maybe some are, but most really don't know. Its not really the man's fault, its the women for not telling them what they want, after all you guys aren't mind readers. We know what we like, but its uncomfortable to most women to open up and tell you. So what's the secret to make her orgasm?

I recently had an ex show up on my doorstep. He remarked how good he was in bed. I raised my eyebrows and said, now I am going to tell you the truth. Now since we are apart I felt I could do that. I told him that although he was not bad at all, it never happened for me. He did not take the time necessary to figure out what I liked, he just did what he thought all women liked. I liked him, so I did not complain, my mistake. Had he slowed down and just used a few good fingering techniques, I would have seen stars.

Most men offer a little foreplay, they think just because the woman is wet, aha, she is hot and ready. That's not how it works. Women have to be warmed up slowly. If you go straight for the spot before she is wet, it can be uncomfortable. Teasing is the best way to warm a woman up. Touch her everywhere, but leave the magic place alone, get her throbbing and aching. When you do touch her intimately, do so for just a short while, then stop. Do this over and over. Tease her mercilessly. Finger her, lick her softly, then stop. Giving her mind blowing orgasms often takes time and patience.

When a woman has been teased, she will be begging for your touch, whether its if you finger her, lick her, it does not matter as long as you do it with skill, she will orgasm fast and hard. Depending on how skilled you are, you just may get her to orgasm multiple times. Women really aren't that hard to please, we just need a man willing to forget what he thinks works and find out what really does.

Learn what women really like and what really drives them wild in bed. Turn your woman into your sex Goddess and have her begging for more over and over again.

Don't assume you know it all. I talk to women all the time. Often we are trying to spare your feelings. In my lifetime honestly, I have only met a couple of guys that got the job done, but many who thought they got it done and didn't. Don't be one of these guys. Learn how by clicking here.

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