How to Touch a Woman to Turn Her On

Seems like a simple thing doesn't it? Touching a woman that is. Well if they all were alike, it would be, but they aren't. What does it for one woman, doesn't work on another.

If you want to turn her on you have to be able to really pay attention. Don't think that going straight for the sweet wet spot is all there is to it. There is so much more to it. Women have many pleasure zones. If you want to really turn her on, explore her body and find her zones.

There is nothing more frustrating to a woman than to be making out and he goes straight down south with his hands or fingers. Foreplay really is the key. If you take the time to find out her hot spots and linger there prior to going for the kitty, her orgasm is going to come quicker and be stronger.

The neck and ears are usually a sure place to kiss or touch. Spend time there. Don't do a hit and run. You can tell if a woman is enjoying your touch by how she reacts. I swear so many men get caught up in their own pulsing penis that they just miss her body signal by a mile. Listen to her breathing, is she moaning a little? Pay attention. If she gets stiff, she isn't liking your touch.

The lower abdomen is also usually a sure bet, I mean really low. Rub her softly about 4 inches below her belly button. Try different pressures. Soft and go harder, test her breathing. Which touch does she respond to. Some like it gentle, some like it rough. Don't assume she is like your last girlfriend, she isn't. Inner thighs seem to be a hot spot also.

Now how can I write this blog post and not mention breasts? No way. Fact is some women are stimulated by touching, kissing, licking, sucking the breasts and some are not. Know if she is or isn't. If a woman has really sensitive breasts, this causes her discomfort and it will be a turn off, not a turn on.

Bottom line, explore different places, different degrees of touch, soft hard and PAY ATTENTION. All women are not created equal. If you want to intensify her orgasms, take your time, learn her body and don't just hop on and hump away as soon as she gets wet or shows signs of arousal. Tease and please her.