I am amazed at the number of men who really don't understand what good foreplay actually is. Men often think of good foreplay as being able to get a woman ready for sex or penetration. Foreplay is much more than this. Foreplay is about turning her on and I mean really turning her on before any sexual act has even began.
If you think things such as touching the breasts or licking them is foreplay, you are slightly mistaken. If you think rubbing her clitoris or licking her clitoris is foreplay again you are mistaken. These are actually part of the sex act itself and not considered foreplay. Foreplay in my opinion leads up to these things. It is not these things.
How many of you jump in bed with your woman and you both get naked and you go straight for her intimate parts, touching, rubbing, licking etc...? I would bet the number is astounding to be honest because most women, myself included say this is the normal. Some men will take enough time to bring her to her first orgasm this way, but many get her wet, then move to intercourse. So sad. So frustrating. So much missed pleasure for her.
If you have done your part and given good foreplay, your partner will be longing for you to touch her in these places. She will be soaking wet before you ever even touch her most intimate parts. Sure you can go straight for these parts and it feels good....eventually. Note: it is very uncomfortable for a woman when a man rubs her clitoris before she is ready for it. It won't bring her to orgasm any quicker, it still going to take about the same amount of time. She isn't built like a man. Men usually go from contact to orgasm much quicker than women.
Good foreplay involves lots of touching of her other parts. Experiment, listen to her breathing and pay attention as you do this. Women have many turn on zones. No two women are the same. Some like a soft touch, some like it more rough. Find out what she likes. Do more of this before you move in for the kill. Teasing is Divine. When you touch a woman in other areas she begins to get aroused and longs for you to touch her more intimately. Then when you do, it's mind blowing for her.
Think of when you are really really turned on. You feel like you could explode. Good foreplay will have your woman feeling like this before you have even ventured into these zones with her. Good foreplay makes her feel like if you would just touch her there, she would explode. Sex with a really really turned on woman will blow your mind so take the time to learn exactly what good foreplay is. It may not be what you think it is.
If you think things such as touching the breasts or licking them is foreplay, you are slightly mistaken. If you think rubbing her clitoris or licking her clitoris is foreplay again you are mistaken. These are actually part of the sex act itself and not considered foreplay. Foreplay in my opinion leads up to these things. It is not these things.
How many of you jump in bed with your woman and you both get naked and you go straight for her intimate parts, touching, rubbing, licking etc...? I would bet the number is astounding to be honest because most women, myself included say this is the normal. Some men will take enough time to bring her to her first orgasm this way, but many get her wet, then move to intercourse. So sad. So frustrating. So much missed pleasure for her.
If you have done your part and given good foreplay, your partner will be longing for you to touch her in these places. She will be soaking wet before you ever even touch her most intimate parts. Sure you can go straight for these parts and it feels good....eventually. Note: it is very uncomfortable for a woman when a man rubs her clitoris before she is ready for it. It won't bring her to orgasm any quicker, it still going to take about the same amount of time. She isn't built like a man. Men usually go from contact to orgasm much quicker than women.
Good foreplay involves lots of touching of her other parts. Experiment, listen to her breathing and pay attention as you do this. Women have many turn on zones. No two women are the same. Some like a soft touch, some like it more rough. Find out what she likes. Do more of this before you move in for the kill. Teasing is Divine. When you touch a woman in other areas she begins to get aroused and longs for you to touch her more intimately. Then when you do, it's mind blowing for her.
Think of when you are really really turned on. You feel like you could explode. Good foreplay will have your woman feeling like this before you have even ventured into these zones with her. Good foreplay makes her feel like if you would just touch her there, she would explode. Sex with a really really turned on woman will blow your mind so take the time to learn exactly what good foreplay is. It may not be what you think it is.
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