There are two mistakes that men make in bed that I would imagine there isn't a woman around that can't relate to. If when talking to their girlfriends and the subject comes up, they will all sigh in unison, trust me. We have all had these two mistakes done to us more than once.
The First Biggest Mistake That Men Make in Bed
You may be doing something really well. You could be going down on her or stroking her or you may be pounding her like there is no tomorrow and it's feeling really good. The mistake here is that you stop doing what is feeling really really good to her. Why you stop, we don't know, but in that moment, we want to just shoot you, trust me. We get frustrated and it feels just awful. There is nothing worse than being on the brink or orgasm and you stop and go to something different. The entire momentum is interrupted. Unlike men, who once orgasm starts, it won't stop, we are left hanging. You are going to explode even if your mama walks in. Not us women, doesn't work that way. Stimulation stops, so does the orgasm. Just ughhh.
It would really serve you guys well to pay attention here to her breathing and heart rate and her complexion. They are very telling as to where she is at. Right before orgasm, a woman can feel her heart just beating very rapidly. Hell I can hear it in my ears and it baffles me that you as a man can't pick up on this. If you are thinking that "She is enjoying this so much, let me see what else I can do she might enjoy more", drop that mentality. If it's working, let her cum, then go onto something else and give her another orgasm.
The Second Biggest Mistake Men Make in Bed
A mistake that men make in bed often is that they get stuck in a spot doing it all wrong. Maybe they are rubbing her clit or going down on her as mentioned above, but they are in the wrong place or putting on too much pressure or not enough. Maybe they are rubbing or licking the lower half of her clit and she likes to have the upper part stimulated. Men do this for one of two reasons.
1. They want her to hurry up and cum because they are too excited and ready to cum themselves.
2. They don't care or know any better. They really don't know what their woman prefers. All women are not alike and don't respond to the same thing. When a man goes straight for the spot and starts rubbing away before it's even wet, he has a long road ahead of him to making her cum more times than not. It downright can hurt and pain does not result in orgasm.
If one of those two reasons don't resonate with you, you can bet that is how she feels. Women often worry that it takes them too long to cum and that you are getting tired or not enjoying it. Put that pressure on a woman and find it's going to take her that much longer to reach orgasm, if she even can. Many women can't or don't orgasm because they don't feel their men really are that interested in her orgasm. This is when they may start to fake it, because it's turning into work. This is when they start getting a lot of head aches or aren't in the mood. It's a vicious cycle.
Break this cycle please before she starts to fantasize about another man. Don't make her have to finish herself off in those few minutes it takes you to go to the bathroom and piss after sex.
Give Women Wild Screaming Orgasms
The First Biggest Mistake That Men Make in Bed
You may be doing something really well. You could be going down on her or stroking her or you may be pounding her like there is no tomorrow and it's feeling really good. The mistake here is that you stop doing what is feeling really really good to her. Why you stop, we don't know, but in that moment, we want to just shoot you, trust me. We get frustrated and it feels just awful. There is nothing worse than being on the brink or orgasm and you stop and go to something different. The entire momentum is interrupted. Unlike men, who once orgasm starts, it won't stop, we are left hanging. You are going to explode even if your mama walks in. Not us women, doesn't work that way. Stimulation stops, so does the orgasm. Just ughhh.
It would really serve you guys well to pay attention here to her breathing and heart rate and her complexion. They are very telling as to where she is at. Right before orgasm, a woman can feel her heart just beating very rapidly. Hell I can hear it in my ears and it baffles me that you as a man can't pick up on this. If you are thinking that "She is enjoying this so much, let me see what else I can do she might enjoy more", drop that mentality. If it's working, let her cum, then go onto something else and give her another orgasm.
The Second Biggest Mistake Men Make in Bed
A mistake that men make in bed often is that they get stuck in a spot doing it all wrong. Maybe they are rubbing her clit or going down on her as mentioned above, but they are in the wrong place or putting on too much pressure or not enough. Maybe they are rubbing or licking the lower half of her clit and she likes to have the upper part stimulated. Men do this for one of two reasons.
1. They want her to hurry up and cum because they are too excited and ready to cum themselves.
2. They don't care or know any better. They really don't know what their woman prefers. All women are not alike and don't respond to the same thing. When a man goes straight for the spot and starts rubbing away before it's even wet, he has a long road ahead of him to making her cum more times than not. It downright can hurt and pain does not result in orgasm.
If one of those two reasons don't resonate with you, you can bet that is how she feels. Women often worry that it takes them too long to cum and that you are getting tired or not enjoying it. Put that pressure on a woman and find it's going to take her that much longer to reach orgasm, if she even can. Many women can't or don't orgasm because they don't feel their men really are that interested in her orgasm. This is when they may start to fake it, because it's turning into work. This is when they start getting a lot of head aches or aren't in the mood. It's a vicious cycle.
Break this cycle please before she starts to fantasize about another man. Don't make her have to finish herself off in those few minutes it takes you to go to the bathroom and piss after sex.
Give Women Wild Screaming Orgasms
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