Friday, August 5, 2011
Thursday, June 2, 2011
Masterful Lover? What About Him?
What is a Masterful Lover? A man that can bring a woman to multiple orgasms. A man that can tune into his woman, make her feel a level of comfort and freedom where she just lets go. A man that understands it's not just skill, but it's mental for a woman. Orgasm starts in her mind. A masterful lover will be able to bring his woman to many orgasms, both vaginal and clitoral.
A Masterful Lover is rare. Most men stop at the first orgasm. The majority of men will bring their women to orgasm first, then they get theirs and it's over. Few take it to the levels that a woman is capable of reaching. Even fewer understand this or know that women are capable of so much more.
I recently interviewed with David Shade, the man responsible for teaching and educating men about being a Masterful Lover. It was quite and interesting two hours as he probed and prodded me about the lovers in my past. Sad thing, I only really have had one Masterful Lover. I have had many a good lover, but only one Masterful Lover. Until my interview, I never really thought about it, but boy have I dreamed about it. Fantasized about it as all women do.
Seems my one Masterful Lover to this day, I don't know how or why he stood out above the others, but he did. Now I wonder was he one of David's students. I may never know.
Almost all women do dream about this man that is so rare. We all would love to not be able to get out of bed after sex from exhaustion and legs shaking, trembling. It rarely happens. Men do the same thing almost every time. They find something that gets their women off and they stop searching for other ways to please her. It becomes predictable.
Do you have any idea how many women lay in bed and masturbate after their lover is "finished" or has went to the bathroom. Yep, we do. We may have even had an orgasm, but we can masturbate while you are taking a quick piss and have another orgasm in less than a minute. We all do it, bet you didn't know that did you.
We don't feel comfortable more times than not sharing these things, because frankly we worry that you will think we are abnormal. Not all women are comfortable asserting themselves, few are. It's up to you to get in her head and really please her in bed.
Often when we do assert ourselves we are met with a negative response. I remember a huge fight one night with a man. He asked me to leave and said it wasn't all about sex. He was right about that of course, but what really happened there is I wounded his ego. I perhaps didn't communicate it correctly. I wasn't saying he didn't please me. I was saying he could please me more. What a nightmare, makes a woman want to keep her mouth shut.
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A Masterful Lover is rare. Most men stop at the first orgasm. The majority of men will bring their women to orgasm first, then they get theirs and it's over. Few take it to the levels that a woman is capable of reaching. Even fewer understand this or know that women are capable of so much more.
I recently interviewed with David Shade, the man responsible for teaching and educating men about being a Masterful Lover. It was quite and interesting two hours as he probed and prodded me about the lovers in my past. Sad thing, I only really have had one Masterful Lover. I have had many a good lover, but only one Masterful Lover. Until my interview, I never really thought about it, but boy have I dreamed about it. Fantasized about it as all women do.
Seems my one Masterful Lover to this day, I don't know how or why he stood out above the others, but he did. Now I wonder was he one of David's students. I may never know.
Almost all women do dream about this man that is so rare. We all would love to not be able to get out of bed after sex from exhaustion and legs shaking, trembling. It rarely happens. Men do the same thing almost every time. They find something that gets their women off and they stop searching for other ways to please her. It becomes predictable.
Do you have any idea how many women lay in bed and masturbate after their lover is "finished" or has went to the bathroom. Yep, we do. We may have even had an orgasm, but we can masturbate while you are taking a quick piss and have another orgasm in less than a minute. We all do it, bet you didn't know that did you.
We don't feel comfortable more times than not sharing these things, because frankly we worry that you will think we are abnormal. Not all women are comfortable asserting themselves, few are. It's up to you to get in her head and really please her in bed.
Often when we do assert ourselves we are met with a negative response. I remember a huge fight one night with a man. He asked me to leave and said it wasn't all about sex. He was right about that of course, but what really happened there is I wounded his ego. I perhaps didn't communicate it correctly. I wasn't saying he didn't please me. I was saying he could please me more. What a nightmare, makes a woman want to keep her mouth shut.
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Thursday, May 12, 2011
About Female Ejaculation
According to Wikepedia female ejaculation is as follows. Female ejaculation (commonly known as gushing, cumming or squirting[1]) refers to the expulsion of noticeable amounts of clear fluid by human females from the paraurethral ducts through and around the urethra during or before an orgasm. The exact source and nature of the fluid continues to be a topic of debate among medical professionals and is related to doubts over the existence of the G-Spot.
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I am not so sure what there is to actually to debate about female ejaculation. I have experienced it. So to me there is nothing to debate. It is surely a g-spot thing. From a woman's perspective though, it can be a touchy thing, meaning some men are turned on by it, some are turned off by it. I mean do you warn the man prior to sex or just surprise him? Some women are embarrassed by it, some are not.
I am no expert in this area by any means, but do know a quite a few women who can do this. One thing they all have in common is they are all over 40 so maybe it has something to do with being more in tune with you body which is more common in older women.
Another thing these women capable of female ejaculation have in common that I know is it does happen during intercourse generally, it is g-spot related and they are usually very comfortable with their partner, meaning they trust him.
The comfort with their partner is important, because if you don't know this already, orgasm for a woman is in her mind. If her mind is not in the right place, it won't happen. It's up to you to get her in the right place in her mind for her to reach a female ejaculation orgasm.
If you are a good lover, you probably would love to be able to bring your woman to this intense level of pleasure. I assure you it is intense and quite different from a clitoral orgasm or vaginal orgasm. If she has never experienced female ejaculation, she is missing out.
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Once a woman does experience female ejaculation, she usually doesn't look back and it can and will become a common thing for her. It's up to you though to help her get there.
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Friday, April 22, 2011
What Women Want in Bed
This is the question men ask all the time. There are over 3600 searches daily just in the local area here alone. Are you guys getting the answers? I think most men think they already know what women want in bed, but the sad truth is most of them really don't.
How do I know this? Because I coach hundreds of women about love and relationship. 90% or more are with a man that they so wish knew more. They don't tell them because to be honest, one of the things women want most in bed is a man in charge, a man that just knows and is open to exploring and encouraging her to be the tiger inside.
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Thing is so many men say that communication is the key. It's not. Sure it helps but it is not the key. The key is understanding a woman's sexuality. Understanding that sex is in her mind and how exactly this relates to what women want in the bedroom.
I challenge you to answer the following questions honestly.
Is your sexlife like a broken record, same thing everytime. Sure she has an orgasm but is it the almost the same everytime
Do you usually initiate sex and she rarely if ever does.
Do you ever turn her down when she comes to you for sex?
Do you think your partner has no sexual fantasies?
Do you not touch her hair, her face and look into her eyes while making love?
Do you neglect her other basic body parts, neck, arms, thighs, even feet?
Does sex always start in the bedroom and never outside of it?
Do you think she just wants to have an orgasm and teasing would not be all that welcomed?
Does she ever have to lay there for a while to catch her breath afterwards?
Do you stop at her one orgasm? Do you think that her orgasm means it's over? Is her one orgasm you single goal?
Do you know if your woman has a submissive or dominant nature in the bedroom.
If you answered yes to 3 or more of these questions, you do not know what women want in bed, sorry but you just don't.
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A woman is capable of extreme pleasure, multiple orgasms and wild passion. Talking to here about it is not going to wake her up. She craves and desires a masterful lover. She dreams about it.
Just the dominant/submissive question alone speaks volumes. I have been with a few men in my lifetime and until recently, not a one ever knew I prefer the submissive role in the bedroom. They all thought they knew me, but never really did. The lovers in my past would be shocked to know this about me actually. I never told them to be honest because there wasn't a single one that would have gotten it.
This doesn't mean they were bad lovers, I have had the orgasms, but they weren't great lovers. A great lover knows these things instinctively because he is in tune with a woman's sexuality. A great lover awakens something primal in his partner. Can you do this. He has taken the time to learn what women want in bed.
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Does your partner respond to you like this video clip. You can be she wants too? If you have never seen this movie, well let me summarize. Mickey Rourke knew how to push the buttons in Kim Bassinger's mind to get her to show him what it was she really really wanted in bed. This is a masterful lover.
How do I know this? Because I coach hundreds of women about love and relationship. 90% or more are with a man that they so wish knew more. They don't tell them because to be honest, one of the things women want most in bed is a man in charge, a man that just knows and is open to exploring and encouraging her to be the tiger inside.
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Thing is so many men say that communication is the key. It's not. Sure it helps but it is not the key. The key is understanding a woman's sexuality. Understanding that sex is in her mind and how exactly this relates to what women want in the bedroom.
I challenge you to answer the following questions honestly.
Is your sexlife like a broken record, same thing everytime. Sure she has an orgasm but is it the almost the same everytime
Do you usually initiate sex and she rarely if ever does.
Do you ever turn her down when she comes to you for sex?
Do you think your partner has no sexual fantasies?
Do you not touch her hair, her face and look into her eyes while making love?
Do you neglect her other basic body parts, neck, arms, thighs, even feet?
Does sex always start in the bedroom and never outside of it?
Do you think she just wants to have an orgasm and teasing would not be all that welcomed?
Does she ever have to lay there for a while to catch her breath afterwards?
Do you stop at her one orgasm? Do you think that her orgasm means it's over? Is her one orgasm you single goal?
Do you know if your woman has a submissive or dominant nature in the bedroom.
If you answered yes to 3 or more of these questions, you do not know what women want in bed, sorry but you just don't.
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A woman is capable of extreme pleasure, multiple orgasms and wild passion. Talking to here about it is not going to wake her up. She craves and desires a masterful lover. She dreams about it.
Just the dominant/submissive question alone speaks volumes. I have been with a few men in my lifetime and until recently, not a one ever knew I prefer the submissive role in the bedroom. They all thought they knew me, but never really did. The lovers in my past would be shocked to know this about me actually. I never told them to be honest because there wasn't a single one that would have gotten it.
This doesn't mean they were bad lovers, I have had the orgasms, but they weren't great lovers. A great lover knows these things instinctively because he is in tune with a woman's sexuality. A great lover awakens something primal in his partner. Can you do this. He has taken the time to learn what women want in bed.
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Does your partner respond to you like this video clip. You can be she wants too? If you have never seen this movie, well let me summarize. Mickey Rourke knew how to push the buttons in Kim Bassinger's mind to get her to show him what it was she really really wanted in bed. This is a masterful lover.
Tuesday, April 12, 2011
Female Fantasies
When I ask men if they think women fantasize about sex as much as men, most say no. Let me tell you that is far from the truth. A woman's fantasy is often more complex, more thought out than a mans. Female fantasies can go on for days in her mind. It's what she calls to mind when she masturbates or pleasures herself.
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If you think they are all pure, such as being swept off into the sunset, think again. Women fantasize about all kinds of things, but with women there is usually a plot.
Some of the common female fantasies include the rape fantasy, the gyno fantasy, and almost every woman has fantasized about another woman going down on her. I doubt there is a woman alive who hasn't had this fantasy. The forced orgasm is another fantasy.
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If you think you know what goes on in your woman's mind, I would wager that you don't. Women don't tell their men more times than not because the men don't make them feel safe to do so. They fear his reaction or that he may think she is perverted or be turned off by it.
It's a shame really, because we keep them locked inside and a females fantasy if shared can take her to new heights in the bedroom. Just being able to share it with you alone opens her up more and makes her feel safe and able to let loose with you like you only dream about or see in the porn flicks.
So many men think they know all about women and what turns them on when in fact they know very little. I am not saying you are a terrible lover, but I know a woman who's partner gives her orgasms without even touching her. This can be done, because sex for a woman is in her mind.
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If you haven't been exploring your woman's female fantasies, you are missing out on one of the most heightened sex life you could imagine. The best lover I ever had embraced my fantasies and I have yet to find another that could compare.
Female fantasies are powerful for women. We are stimulated in our minds. Read us an erotic story over showing us pictures any day and see what happens.
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If you aren't improving your sex life and you are wondering why it's so dull, don't always blame the woman, because you don't know what you don't know. Women, all women are capable of multiple orgasms. Is your woman experiencing them?
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If you think they are all pure, such as being swept off into the sunset, think again. Women fantasize about all kinds of things, but with women there is usually a plot.
Some of the common female fantasies include the rape fantasy, the gyno fantasy, and almost every woman has fantasized about another woman going down on her. I doubt there is a woman alive who hasn't had this fantasy. The forced orgasm is another fantasy.
Secrets of Erotic Hypnosis
If you think you know what goes on in your woman's mind, I would wager that you don't. Women don't tell their men more times than not because the men don't make them feel safe to do so. They fear his reaction or that he may think she is perverted or be turned off by it.
It's a shame really, because we keep them locked inside and a females fantasy if shared can take her to new heights in the bedroom. Just being able to share it with you alone opens her up more and makes her feel safe and able to let loose with you like you only dream about or see in the porn flicks.
So many men think they know all about women and what turns them on when in fact they know very little. I am not saying you are a terrible lover, but I know a woman who's partner gives her orgasms without even touching her. This can be done, because sex for a woman is in her mind.
The Secrets of Female Sexuality
If you haven't been exploring your woman's female fantasies, you are missing out on one of the most heightened sex life you could imagine. The best lover I ever had embraced my fantasies and I have yet to find another that could compare.
Female fantasies are powerful for women. We are stimulated in our minds. Read us an erotic story over showing us pictures any day and see what happens.
The Official Deep Spot Video
If you aren't improving your sex life and you are wondering why it's so dull, don't always blame the woman, because you don't know what you don't know. Women, all women are capable of multiple orgasms. Is your woman experiencing them?
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Monday, January 17, 2011
How to Make a Woman Scream In Bed
Well this subject interests me. I have asked a lot of women if they are screamers and let me tell you, most are not. I have talked to hundreds of women and two said they had been with men that made them scream in bed. So here is the question. Is it just not common that women scream in bed or is it that they just haven't been taken to that level. So is it the woman or the man who is responsible here.
Now another view here. Those porn flicks. All the women scream in those. Is this normal? Is it just acting? Do men watch these and just think it's the norm when it's not? I personally haven't really screamed like an ape or anything like those women in those flicks do. Does that mean my man isn't doing it right? Could a man who hasn't ever had a woman scream in bed, learn how to bring her to that point?
Now these same women who said they had never screamed in bed did say however, that some men just did it for them more than others. They had been breathless, had multiple orgasms and were out of control. The just didn't scream.
Let's explore another angle. Don't you think we feel a little silly screaming in bed? I mean if we aren't super confident, this is going to be a chore here to let lose and shout out an ear piercing scream. We have to be really comfortable with you to do this, I can assure you.
I would venture so far as to say if you have a screaming woman in bed and it's the first time, she just faked it on you big time.
Do I think men can probably learn how to make a woman scream in bed. Yes I do. I think he better be willing to put in some time and effort though and learn a few skills. I am not so convinced that every woman will be able to scream in bed, but I am convinced that every woman can have what she describes as a screaming orgasm.
Now another view here. Those porn flicks. All the women scream in those. Is this normal? Is it just acting? Do men watch these and just think it's the norm when it's not? I personally haven't really screamed like an ape or anything like those women in those flicks do. Does that mean my man isn't doing it right? Could a man who hasn't ever had a woman scream in bed, learn how to bring her to that point?
Now these same women who said they had never screamed in bed did say however, that some men just did it for them more than others. They had been breathless, had multiple orgasms and were out of control. The just didn't scream.
Let's explore another angle. Don't you think we feel a little silly screaming in bed? I mean if we aren't super confident, this is going to be a chore here to let lose and shout out an ear piercing scream. We have to be really comfortable with you to do this, I can assure you.
I would venture so far as to say if you have a screaming woman in bed and it's the first time, she just faked it on you big time.
Do I think men can probably learn how to make a woman scream in bed. Yes I do. I think he better be willing to put in some time and effort though and learn a few skills. I am not so convinced that every woman will be able to scream in bed, but I am convinced that every woman can have what she describes as a screaming orgasm.
Thursday, January 6, 2011
How to Touch a Woman to Turn Her On
Seems like a simple thing doesn't it? Touching a woman that is. Well if they all were alike, it would be, but they aren't. What does it for one woman, doesn't work on another.
If you want to turn her on you have to be able to really pay attention. Don't think that going straight for the sweet wet spot is all there is to it. There is so much more to it. Women have many pleasure zones. If you want to really turn her on, explore her body and find her zones.
There is nothing more frustrating to a woman than to be making out and he goes straight down south with his hands or fingers. Foreplay really is the key. If you take the time to find out her hot spots and linger there prior to going for the kitty, her orgasm is going to come quicker and be stronger.
The neck and ears are usually a sure place to kiss or touch. Spend time there. Don't do a hit and run. You can tell if a woman is enjoying your touch by how she reacts. I swear so many men get caught up in their own pulsing penis that they just miss her body signal by a mile. Listen to her breathing, is she moaning a little? Pay attention. If she gets stiff, she isn't liking your touch.
The lower abdomen is also usually a sure bet, I mean really low. Rub her softly about 4 inches below her belly button. Try different pressures. Soft and go harder, test her breathing. Which touch does she respond to. Some like it gentle, some like it rough. Don't assume she is like your last girlfriend, she isn't. Inner thighs seem to be a hot spot also.
Now how can I write this blog post and not mention breasts? No way. Fact is some women are stimulated by touching, kissing, licking, sucking the breasts and some are not. Know if she is or isn't. If a woman has really sensitive breasts, this causes her discomfort and it will be a turn off, not a turn on.
Bottom line, explore different places, different degrees of touch, soft hard and PAY ATTENTION. All women are not created equal. If you want to intensify her orgasms, take your time, learn her body and don't just hop on and hump away as soon as she gets wet or shows signs of arousal. Tease and please her.
If you want to turn her on you have to be able to really pay attention. Don't think that going straight for the sweet wet spot is all there is to it. There is so much more to it. Women have many pleasure zones. If you want to really turn her on, explore her body and find her zones.
There is nothing more frustrating to a woman than to be making out and he goes straight down south with his hands or fingers. Foreplay really is the key. If you take the time to find out her hot spots and linger there prior to going for the kitty, her orgasm is going to come quicker and be stronger.
The neck and ears are usually a sure place to kiss or touch. Spend time there. Don't do a hit and run. You can tell if a woman is enjoying your touch by how she reacts. I swear so many men get caught up in their own pulsing penis that they just miss her body signal by a mile. Listen to her breathing, is she moaning a little? Pay attention. If she gets stiff, she isn't liking your touch.
The lower abdomen is also usually a sure bet, I mean really low. Rub her softly about 4 inches below her belly button. Try different pressures. Soft and go harder, test her breathing. Which touch does she respond to. Some like it gentle, some like it rough. Don't assume she is like your last girlfriend, she isn't. Inner thighs seem to be a hot spot also.
Now how can I write this blog post and not mention breasts? No way. Fact is some women are stimulated by touching, kissing, licking, sucking the breasts and some are not. Know if she is or isn't. If a woman has really sensitive breasts, this causes her discomfort and it will be a turn off, not a turn on.
Bottom line, explore different places, different degrees of touch, soft hard and PAY ATTENTION. All women are not created equal. If you want to intensify her orgasms, take your time, learn her body and don't just hop on and hump away as soon as she gets wet or shows signs of arousal. Tease and please her.
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